Tag: love

Fear no longer controls me…

Ok, maybe it does but a fraction of what it did. Since my post last week Led by Fear I have been more aware of when I am letting fear get the better of me. For instance, the string of the courtesy flag we fly on the mast of our sailboat broke and it needed …

Led by fear…

I am going to tell you a secret and I hope you can be honest with me in return. I have been led by fear for years, decades even. The majority of my friends and family would never agree, they would say that I do pretty much whatever I want whenever I want to. They …

Card of the day…

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Serenity…

A dear friend of mine gave me a set of Angel Cards as a gift, the first thought I had was how pretty they are and I couldn’t wait to have a look at them and see what the Angels had to say. Lately, I have been feeling quite strange about my life and my …

I’m still alive

Oh it has been a while… Since my last post I have been away on holidays with my man. We went to France for 3 weeks, 1 week in Paris and 2 weeks driving the Normandy coast. My man educated me on all the D-Day events and I got to see exactly what those brave …

It’s been a long time…

Hi everyone, I'm sorry it's been so long since my last post. Since then things have gone downhill, I've been very moody, depressed, strange, tired, confused, anxious, snappy and just plain unhappy 😔.Turns out going off the contraceptive pill can do this (wish the dr had mentioned it). It's been 3 very long months of …

I need to stop trying to be the “fixer”

Here is a great blog post I'd like to share:https://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-to-care-for-others-without-taking-on-their-pain/

Schema-therapy Part 2

I’m just going to be completely honest and tell you I’m feeling extremely emotional and scared about my upcoming session this afternoon. Last week I was left feeling drained after my first session of schema-therapy and rescripting (link in previous post).  During the session I closed my eyes and found my safe place first, then …

Loss of any kind is hard…

In the past couple of hours I heard that a wonderful , beautiful young woman who followed her dreams has passed away. I worked with her before she left the airline industry to pursue her dream of being an Interior Designer. I was so proud of her when she told me she got the job …

Real love?

On Wednesday I had a lovely girls day with my friend P. We had a South American lunch with Sangria, then went to my local cafe for coffee and cake. Lots of girly chats and laughs. Later in the afternoon we sat in my kitchen and had a cuppa before P set off home.  I …