Tag: need

Card of the day…

M.

April 2, 2020 Card of the Day…Death

I’m still alive

Oh it has been a while… Since my last post I have been away on holidays with my man. We went to France for 3 weeks, 1 week in Paris and 2 weeks driving the Normandy coast. My man educated me on all the D-Day events and I got to see exactly what those brave …

I need to stop trying to be the “fixer”

Here is a great blog post I'd like to share:https://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-to-care-for-others-without-taking-on-their-pain/

Schema-therapy Part 2

I’m just going to be completely honest and tell you I’m feeling extremely emotional and scared about my upcoming session this afternoon. Last week I was left feeling drained after my first session of schema-therapy and rescripting (link in previous post).  During the session I closed my eyes and found my safe place first, then …

Real love?

On Wednesday I had a lovely girls day with my friend P. We had a South American lunch with Sangria, then went to my local cafe for coffee and cake. Lots of girly chats and laughs. Later in the afternoon we sat in my kitchen and had a cuppa before P set off home.  I …

I feel like I’ve lost myself…

“I want the old you back, you’ve changed in the past 6 weeks “ My bf said this last night and I asked him to explain and he just said he’d noticed a change in me.  I totally agree with him… at first I thought he wanted the girl who cried all of the time, which …

Today…

I’m having a very low day. My partner is going through what I would call a midlife crisis. He hates that he is causing me to feel like I’m the problem. I love him for that. But he would like me to stay at my place until he knows what he can do with his …